The Quiz

Read each question and choose the answer, A, B or C, that feels most true for you.

Once you've gone through all ten, count how many A's, B's, and C's you chose.

1. When something goes wrong in your business or leadership, what's your first instinct?
   A. I take control and find the fix fast, sitting in discomfort feels unproductive.
   B. I feel it fully first, the action comes later – if it does.
   C. I notice both pulls, action and feeling, and sense which one the moment needs.

2. When someone offers you help, support, or a gift, what happens inside you?
   A. I feel uneasy until I can repay it somehow.
   B. I take it, but I rarely ask for help directly, I wait and hope to be noticed.
   C. I receive with ease, it's part of the exchange, I give back when it makes sense.

3. How do you typically handle your boundaries?
   A. I set them clearly, sometimes so firmly it puts people off.
   B. I know where my line is, but I often let it move for someone else's comfort.
   C. I hold a boundary and stay warm at the same time.

4. What happens when you try to rest?
   A. Rest feels unproductive, my mind stays on what I should be doing instead.
   B. I rest, but I feel guilty afterward, like I haven't earned it yet.
   C. I rest without guilt, it sustains me, it's not a break from myself.

5. In a conflict with someone close to you, what's your default?
   A. I want to resolve it fast, sometimes before either of us has felt it.
   B. I avoid it, or over-explain and over-apologize to smooth things over.
   C. I stay present in the discomfort without rushing it or shrinking from it.

6. How do you feel about being visible, seen, or recognized for your work?
   A. I want the recognition, but I downplay how much it matters to me.
   B. I shrink from it, attention makes me uncomfortable, even when I've earned it.
   C. I can be seen fully without needing to perform or disappear.

7. Where do your best ideas usually come from?
   A. I think my way to them, analysis and planning bring me clarity.
   B. They arrive on their own, and I often lose them before I can use them.
   C. An idea arrives on its own, and I give it the structure to become real.

8. How connected do you feel to your body's signals, intuition, or gut sense?
   A. I trust logic over instinct, I need evidence before I'll act on a feeling.
   B. I live through gut instinct, but I don't always translate it into action.
   C. I sense something in my body and trust it enough to act, even without proof.

9. What's your relationship with time and productivity?
   A. My days are structured tightly, unstructured time makes me restless.
   B. My days move with my energy, deadlines and follow-through are where I lose momentum.
   C. I hold structure and flow at once, my schedule serves me, it doesn't run me.

10. When you're leading others, what do you lean on most?
    A. Clear direction, I tell people what needs to happen and when.
    B. Connection, I want everyone to feel good, even if the task doesn't get done.
    C. I hold the direction and the connection without sacrificing either one.